4.25.2013

please pray with us!!!!!!



Friends and family,
Our family needs your prayers.


Through the next few months my incredible mother-in-law, Lisa Mason, will be going through a risky procedure that will hopefully cure her of her MS (Multiple Sclerosis).  

If you didn't know, Lisa has been diagnosed with MS for nearly 25 years. She used to love running, backpacking and just being active but throughout the years, since she has been diagnosed with MS, she has slowly seen her body and legs weaken. She now has a hard time getting around and uses a cane most of the time. {But it sure doesn’t stop her from always being there for her family! Or from traveling 12 hrs in the car to see us! Or from hosting all of us at her house. Or from taking care of her granddaughter every day for a whole year! Or from sewing a beautiful quilt for her daughters. Or from becoming an incredible watercolor artist! Seriously, she’s amazing. And she never ever complains, even though we all know there could be a lot to complain about} There are a lot of times that she has to use a wheelchair because she can’t be on her legs too long before they give out. {But again, it doesn’t stop her} She knows that she is only a year or so away from being stuck in a wheelchair for the rest of her life. {And we know it wouldn’t stop her –but we want to see her walk again!! And we know God can do it!}

If you know her well you know that she is a silent warrior. She has never, never complained about the MS weakening her body or questioned God about why she has to endure this in her life. She is the strongest person I know. All with a smile and a hopeful heart, she has tried almost every medicine and procedure out there to try to slow down her MS or even cure it, but so far, nothing has worked. They have spent tens of thousands of dollars on medicine, procedures, equipment, doctors, etc. and so far, nothing has worked. But…. They have now finally found something that really may work.

The procedure is a stem cell transplant. Its been done in Europe and Canada for more than 20 years and has seen some incredible results. There are cases in which MS patients who have had MS for ten years or less have been completely cured!! Incredible. There are even cases in which MS patients that have had the disease for more than 20 years that are cured. The likelihood of the MS being cured is higher in people that have had it just a few years, compared to the people that have had it for an extended period of time. However, we are believing that it is still a chance for my mother-in-law to be freed of the disease that has prevented her from doing so many things in life that she wishes she could still do. That she watches everyone around her do so easily.

The thing is, this procedure is a trial. Meaning it’s a little risky. Lisa’s doctor is one of three doctors in the USA who will even do the trial. And he lives in Amarillo, TX (where Lisa is). Total God thing, if you ask me. He has done more than 200 transplants and did his doctorate at Oxford in England on Campath - a drug listed in his protocol. He believes in this procedure. But it’s still a risk. There are a small percentage of fatalities. These kind if transplants for MS have been done for more than ten years in foreign countries and in a few states as a trial, all with great results. Donny and Lisa have been praying about this for nearly two years and feel God has ordained every step. We’re all praying that the outcome will be “infinitely more than we might ask or think.” Ephesians 3:20 This could be a break through for not only my mother-in-law but also so many MS patients out there also. Lisa already is such an encouragement and an example to so many people!

On April 22nd (this past Monday) she began a very slow process of recovery by going through her first round of chemo. In this first week she will lose her hair completely and the chemo will clear her body of all her MS cells.

During week 2 the doctor will give her shots to help her body produce an abundance of stem cells.

During week 3 they will then remove the stem cells from her body while they are free from disease. (crazy that you can do that?!)

During week 4 or 5 they will then give her three more types of chemo to again clean out her body and kill all the MS in her body. She will be very, very weak and most likely very sick.

The following week is the beginning of what we believe to be the scariest part of this procedure. On what they call Day Zero, they will transplant all the healthy stem cells back into her body and at that point she will begin a critical 90-day period where the risk of any kind of small infection could be life threatening. (This will be in June) Prayers will be needed most during this time. She will spend two weeks in the hospital where they can monitor her closely until her white and red blood cell count is at an appropriate level. When they release her to go home, we will be praying that God will keep her healthy because any infection while her red/white blood cell count is still low could be lethal. She will be in isolation at home where she and Donny, my father-in-law, will have to be so very careful to keep her away from any kind of bacteria or infection – no flowers, she can’t eat anything uncooked, she and her husband will have to sleep in separate beds, she can’t have any visitors… etc. for three months. Although the number of deaths is low in this whole procedure, this is where it could happen. If a patient in her condition caught any kind of infection or cold it could turn into pneumonia so quickly. And if she isn’t treated quickly enough, that’s when it gets scary.

After 90 days her body should be able to fight off infection again and for the next nine months her body will be healing. It won't be until almost a year after the original transplant that the doctors will know if the MS is gone. But she should see positive results after those 90 days of waiting- like hopefully much better use of her muscles.

If the transplant works her body will be rid of the MS completely! However, after 20+ years of the MS damaging her body, she may not regain full strength in her legs. We, as a family, will be thankful for the MS to be gone and for it to no longer worsen her condition. But another possible outcome, after the MS is gone, is that she could begin therapy to regain muscle from years lost. And that is the ultimate goal in all of this.  

My mom and family are very aware of the risk involved with the stem cell transplant but we are trusting in God because he is our only hope in this. However, it is very strange and scary to know that there is a chance that this procedure could take her life. The decision has been ultimately up to my mother-in-law and we trust her. We know she has been praying about this for 18 months. She has been seeking God, seeking wise counsel and listening to the doctors. She would rather be freed of her worldly body then not take the chance to rid herself of MS before it destroys her body.

So, what can you do?
#1 – Please pray for Lisa Mason!

Here is what we ask prayer for:
 - That my mother-in-law would healed, freed from MS, and be given the ability to regain strength and live a normal life.
 - For the doctors involved and that God would work through them.
 - For my moms 90 day period where risk of infection is so big. That God would have His hands on her and protect from all bacteria and infection that could threaten her life.
 - Pray that death is not an option. God is a miracle worker and we are trusting in that.
 - For her spiritual and mental health. Pray she trusts in God's will through out all of her sickness, trust the doctors, and feel loved. She will be alone for most of the three months and we pray that only hope and encouragement would fill her mind.
 - For our family to trust in God's will and that no matter what happens He is to be glorified.
 - For our family to show Christ to others by the way we love Lisa and the way we pray.
 - For my father-in-law, Donny, to have strength as he watches his bride get sick and for him to love and serve her well.

#2 – This cost of this procedure is outrageous. They have already seen incredible ways that the Lord is providing through His people. If you feel led to donate you may donate directly to her account at any Happy State Bank location or mail a check made out to:
For the Benefit of Lisa Mason
c/o Jane Austin
2604 S Lipscomb St.
Amarillo, TX 79109

Thank you for being a part of my life and for praying for my mother-in-law.  I will try to keep you all updated through out her procedure here on my blog.

Love,
Elizabeth and Mark
and the whole Mason family

pole vault in the mall

The Drake Relays are a HUGE deal here in Des Moines and its coming this weekend. As you may or may not know about me i LOVE track! I was a pole vaulter and hurdler in high school and I just love it. I miss those days sometimes. and I miss going to track meets too! Last night our friends were over for dinner and we got a text from another friend telling us that they were pole vaulting for the relays in the big mall! So we rushed through dinner and went to check it out. I'm not sure what I was expecting but this was incredible!!!!! There were several olympians vaulting and it was awesome!!! I couldn't believe how high they were going {and inside the mall!!!} it was crazy. and so fun! Thanks Jayme for telling us about it and thanks Rachel for going with me! Some reporter guy asked me about our time there, I guess he could tell I was a pole vaulter since I clearly looked just like the olympians and was giving them advice... haha oh wait, NO! not even a little bit! I think the just thought Lucy and Reese were really cute, it's hard to miss them! anyway... Lucy made it in the video :) and you can see how incredible it was! Reese and Judah were absolutely mesmerized by it! I did some videos on my phone and R kept asking to watch the 'pole stick' movies all night and since she woke up this morning too. Maybe she'll be a future Pole Vaulter :) Hoping we can go to some of the races this weekend.

Here's a link to the video and you can read about who all was vaulting {no one probably cares about that as much as I do though :)}



LINK to the article


4.24.2013

my heart in residency...


Just read this today in a CMDA newsletter to the spouses (Christian Medical/Dental Society) that my friend sent me and it just brought me to tears because it is EXACTLY how my heart has been feeling lately. In some ways, I am loving this stage of our lives. I love having two babies. I love holding our four month old that always always needs me. I love watching as every little tiny new thing she learns is so exciting. I love rocking her to sleep. and I also love sitting on the floor playing with imaginary friends and coloring with my three year old. and watching as she is growing up. and doesn't seem to need me for every little thing anymore. I love seeing my husband leave for work (through my squinty eyes at 4:30am) in his scrubs and white coat ready to go save the world and sew people up, his pager already going off and his folded piece of white paper already has a long list of patient names to see (do they seriously not have some sort of more official looking form or notebook they could use? they all just use a sheet of paper and the writing is truly unreadable. hilarious.) anyway... im trying to love every stage of our life. and this is a good one. I couldn't be more thankful for our friends here so are just amazing. they support me so much. they love my girls. i'm so blessed. but at the same time, my heart aches for our family time together. I HATE that my reese wakes up every morning asking if daddy is home and the sad reply is that he's at work. and she asks me a billion times throughout the day. and then we eat dinner, just the two of us, and he's still not home. and then he works for 20 days straight without a day off. and we all miss each other. its so hard. and i get jealous of my friends who's husbands come home for lunch, or their husband made them all breakfast. and I get sad that Mark and I don't have much time together - and when we do we're both exhausted. but the thing is we just have to make what little time we do have together into QUALITY time. work hard and play hard has become our motto. but i still miss my husband and my girls miss their daddy... but then I read this. and I feel better. I know I'm not alone. I know this is God's plan for me and for our family. I know it is a SIN to be covetous of my friend. Oh Lord, forgive me. I know I have hole-y jeans because we're poor, because I'm playing on the floor with my girls, and mostly because I'm praying on my knees more than I ever have. Thank you Jesus for having a plan for our lives. I pray that we will all be stronger because of our years here in Iowa and that it will only draw us closer to you.

here's the little article: residency wives please read!

Hole-y Promptings
By Carol Shrader 

My favorite jeans have a hole in the knee. Well, by favorite, I should quantify that I have only owned them about a month. A slightly ungraceful tumble the first time I wore them resulted in said hole. But they are still so comfortable that I wear them. Hole or no, they quickly became my favorite pair.
And looking at the hole makes me smile -- ok, if I am completely honest, it makes me frown because I can't find another pair like them and, let's face it, cute and comfortable jeans are a hard thing to come by -- but the holekind of makes me smile because I am reminded of residency. The hole floods me with memories of a time when wearing holes in the knees of my jeans was a common occurrence.
Certainly the economic factor played a role there but not entirely. Oh sure, I couldn't afford a closet full of jeans so the one or two pair I did own saw a LOT of wear. But mainly, I wore through those knees crawling around playing with my children. Chasing toddlers at their level, acting out dramas with our Little People sets and reading books. I spent more time on my knees with three preschoolers than I spent anywhere else. 
As the hole on my knee prompts me, I remember those days of being intentional with my preschoolers, and because it was residency, being intentional with my husband. The days of residency afforded us very little quantity of time together, but we did have quality time and we made the most of it.
Reflecting back on our years of training, as well as the years since, I am struck by the thought that intentionalitymight just be the strength of the medical marriage.
Would you agree that some days it is hard not to resent some of the other marital strengths - you know, the friend who has teamwork as the strength of her marriage, she and her husband work together on everything from dishes to diapers? Or what about the one whose husband works from home and they can discuss every decision in detail? 
Medical marriages are unique in their make-up, and as such, must develop strengths of their own. Just as residency taught my husband to be a surgeon, residency taught us that time together is a premium that should not be wasted or taken for granted. Residency taught us to be intentional together.
The dictionary offers synonyms for intentional as purposeful, deliberate, conscious. We must make the time with our husbands purposeful. I looked up synonyms for purposeful as well ... want to know what it said? A do-or-die attitude. Do. Or. Die. Wow. I think I like it.
Most of us will not have husbands who work from home. Or husbands whose job will allow them to attend every parent meeting, open house and birthday party we attend. They may be too exhausted after a day in the operating room to help with the dishes every night or to bathe the baby.
The raw truth is that in my 21 years as a doctor's wife, I have had seasons where I longed for all of that. Seasons where I resented the fact that Wade was not with me at every open house. Or more pointedly, days where I felt envious of my friend whose husband was at every event. Oh, did you hear me? I was covetous of my friend's marriage.
"And he said, 'What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery,coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness'" (Mark 7:20-22, ESV). (Emphasis mine.) 
"For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God" (Ephesians 5:5, ESV). (Emphasis mine, again.)
Dear ones, Jesus lists jealousy right there with murder and sexual immorality. We do not want that. Rather, we must develop a do-or-die mentality of guarding our hearts. We must be purposeful about protecting our marriages. And yes, it would not hurt us to wear holes in the knees of our jeans, being intentional about spending quality time with our man.
Blessings,
Carol
Carol Shrader is wife to her wonderful Wade and mom to soon-to-be 16-year-old triplets, Benjamin, Mason and Claire, as well as 7-year-old Cate. They live in Phoenix, Arizona where she is grateful to only have another month or so of needing her hole-y jeans.

4.02.2013

easter

We were sad that Mark had to work nights during Easter weekend but we tried to make the best of it. The weekend started with a fun easter egg hunt (inside bc of the rain) at our friends house and she even made us such an incredible Easter meal for lunch to eat together :) it was really so special and meant a lot to me - esp since Mark couldn't be with us. I just really feel so blessed to have found such sweet friends here in Des Moines!

Sunday morning we went to the early church service so Mark could just stay awake after working all night and even though reese threw a huge fit about wearing her dress, we were late, Lucy spit up ALL over her pretty dress, Reese almost wet her pants on the way there (involving some tears), my skirt didn't fit, and mark could barely keep his eyes open... we made it. ha. and God still spoke to our hearts and we left feeling so thankful and excited that He is ALIVE. and its just so sweet to hear reeser talk about it and sort of understand it.

our best attempt at a family picture after church:

after church we had brunch together at Mimis (my husband is such a trooper to stay awake). when we got home the easter bunny had come {we knew there was no way we'd get reese in the car for church if he came when she woke up ha!} She was pretty excited about the candy trail and especially that he had eaten the carrots she left him :) too cute.

then we tried to get some pics of the girls...


prob shouldn't have let reese have a tootsie roll right before. couldn't get it out of her hand and she couldnt get it out of her teeth ha. but lu sure was excited :)

and then we spent the rest of the day relaxing and playing inside - except for about 10 minutes of a cold and windy egg hunt for R. but she didnt care so much about the eggs and there are a ton still out there. she just wanted to play on her swing set that isn't set up. poor kid. still, such a fun day. i love our family!